Sisters who rock

Sisters rock! Especially mine, who celebrates her 3xth 30th 26th birthday today!

My sister & I at ages 8 and 3, photo by Mom; then, at ages 25 and 20, photo by Anton Sheker

My sister’s name is Sheila, but she’s always been Ate (“older sister”) to me. My ate rocks, and she always has. At an age when most teens wouldn’t be caught dead with their baby sisters, she always let me tag along with her and her friends (she was 16, I was 11). She helped me jump over the fence at a Bon Jovi concert, brought me into the awesome universe of Robotech, let me wear her vintage 60s dresses from Bambang Market (in 1998 when nobody our age was wearing vintage), even introduced me to my first boyfriend (let’s say that was a good thing).

She took on huge responsibilities at an early age with no questions asked, and supported me throughout college while building a stellar career. She has all the classic big sister traits—good, sensible, successful and responsible—combined with the boundless energy and adventurous, fun-loving spirit of a younger sister. (Especially when it comes to a night of partying, when I become not just the older sister, but a total granny.)

My sister and I have shared everything from clothes to late-night conversations, to international mommy handovers and mad dashes through airports. She shares because she has a big and loyal heart, and I’m so lucky to be one of the people whom I know always has a place in it.

Happy birthday, Ate!

Speaking of sisters, let me leave you with some weekend reading from another pair of sisters who rock. Thea and Toni Neubauer publish sisterMagazine, an online mag for “active, widely interested and digitally living women.” Covering topics that range from food, lifestyle and fashion to technology, mobile developments and start-ups, sisterMAG is bursting with content and is beautifully designed to boot. You can see for yourself by browsing sisterMAG’s second issue right here.

I met Thea and Toni briefly at The Hive in Berlin and was blown away by their style and smarts. So I’m really looking forward to meeting them again this weekend at the Meet the Blogger event here in Amsterdam.

I’ll be back after the weekend with details on Meet the Blogger and a week’s worth of posts on beautiful, beautiful Florence (yay!). In the meantime, happy reading… and happy weekend!

  • http://www.joelix.com/ Judith

    Happy 26th (hahhaaa) Birthday to Deepa’s Ate! Sisters are the best, aren’t they? I love mine too :o ) Have a great Meet the Blogger weekend and say hi to the oh-so-stylish sisterMAG sisters!

  • Sheila Paul

    Thank you Deepa!!!!

  • http://www.pondering-beauty.blogspot.com/ Mylinda

    The interesting thing here is that I feel that I am familiar with everything you have said in this post. Being Ate Sheila’s best friend since ancient times, I sometimes feel that you are, in fact, my younger sister as well. And inadvertently, you have mentioned me in the first paragraph of this post (hanging out with Ate’s friends, anyone?). Bon Jovi concert check. Robotech check. Bambang Market, I think I know where that is… and the first boyfriend? I know who that is too! Of course, I am extremely proud of your sister, all her accomplishments and her dear love for you. We both turn/turned ahem, 26, this year. Know that we are also very proud of you and all that you have achieved. Nuff said.

    • http://www.currystrumpet.com/ Deepa

      You are sooo right! You and Pat are my surrogate ates!

  • Debora

    What a lovely story!

    Hope to see you tomorrow at Meet the Blogger :)

    <3 debora

  • http://craftmatesetc.blogspot.ca/ Craftmates

    Awww, what a nice post! I can totally relate because I have an Ate too and there’s just the two of us. Our parents are both gone now so we totally have each other’s back.

    Happy birthday to your sister!

    P.S. You were such a cute baby!

    • http://www.currystrumpet.com/ Deepa

      Thanks, Virna. Yes, iba talaga kapag dalawa lang kayo.
      Oh gosh, I was super chubby. As you can see my sister and I kept both our body types till adulthood! :P

  • Tina

    What a lovely tribute. Happy B’day Ate..

    Enjoy MTB, some London bloggers are going and I’m sure you’ll be in your element! Say hi to T&T and give them a kiss from me, the other T:)

    • http://www.currystrumpet.com/ Deepa

      Thanks, Tina! The crappy weather is not putting me in much of a socializing mood, but I will do my best :)

  • Genmarchan

    Wow! 

    Both Paul Sisters ROCK! :)

    • http://www.currystrumpet.com/ Deepa

      Thank you! :)

  • http://www.canyoucomehome.com/ StarletStarlet

    You both are so sweet! Happy (belated) birthday to your ate. 

    And I just love the bon jovi story – those are the kind of things that make our sisterhood extra special! (Ah, I miss my sist~)

  • http://lovelysimplenow.com/ sarah

    This is so sweet.  I’ve always wished I had a sister.  Or a brother.  Your sister sounds wonderful.  Happy belated birthday to her!  

  • http://jillianinitaly.wordpress.com/ Jillian In Italy

    Lucky you to have an amazing sister.  I’m guessing she’s pretty lucky to have as well though.  And can I just say that I’m in love with that swimming pool!  So late 70′s (early80′s?).  I’m pretty sure I had the same one as a kid.

    • http://www.currystrumpet.com/ Deepa

      Of course she’s lucky to have me, hahaha. Yes, the pool is early 80s!

  • http://hellopasadya.blogspot.com/ Danie at Pasadya

    This is so sweet! Happy Birthday to your sister! I also have an Ate Sheila, but she’s my cousin. :) That tiny pool!! We used to have one just like that as kids!

    • http://www.currystrumpet.com/ Deepa

      Thanks Danie! Btw, I love your blog! Great name, feel, design… and love the nod to your Pinay roots. Always nice to find Pinay bloggers all over the world :)
      But is it just me, or I can’t seem to click on anything in the right sidebar?